Intermittently engaging, but the author never deals with an essential question: What is an adult’s—including a...
A father’s secret past roils his son’s world.
After his father’s death, Boast (Power Ballads, 2011) made two shocking discoveries: The man who had lived so frugally that his sons dressed in thrift-store clothing left him a large inheritance, and his father had been married before. In his mid-20s, the author learned that he had two half brothers. Since they could make a claim against their father’s estate, Boast needed to track them down and, his lawyer advised, work out a financial settlement to avoid going to court. Still living in the family’s native England, Boast’s half-siblings, Arthur and Harry, welcomed him warmly. Arthur, a gay, affluent art gallery owner in Brighton, was living with his partner; Harry, a BMW employee, had two children who were delighted with their new uncle. Boast, however, remained tense and suspicious, second-guessing everything he said and wondering if connecting with them had been a mistake. His self-absorption and bitterness make him a less-than-sympathetic narrator. When he returned to America, he was reluctant to talk about his family, avoiding questions like, “Where do your folks live? What do they do? Sisters, brothers?” Determined “not to be seen as damaged goods,” he affected “a studied, almost icy reserve.” Although they knew their father abandoned them, settled in America and had a new family, Arthur and Harry remained emotionally open. Boast wondered, though, if their friendship was merely a ploy to take his inheritance. “I’d discovered I not only wanted the money,” he writes, “but could hardly stand to give any of it away.” When he did make an offer to the men, however, they readily agreed. In this emotionally raw memoir, Boast reveals his hard struggle to redefine for himself the meaning of family.
Intermittently engaging, but the author never deals with an essential question: What is an adult’s—including a parent’s—right to privacy?Pub Date: Sept. 15, 2014
ISBN: 978-0-87140-381-0
Page Count: 288
Publisher: Liveright/Norton
Review Posted Online: June 9, 2014
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 1, 2014
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A potent depiction of grief, but also a book lacking the originality and acerbic prose that distinguished Didion’s earlier...
A moving record of Didion’s effort to survive the death of her husband and the near-fatal illness of her only daughter.
In late December 2003, Didion (Where I Was From, 2003, etc.) saw her daughter, Quintana Roo Dunne, hospitalized with a severe case of pneumonia, the lingering effects of which would threaten the young woman’s life for several months to come. As her daughter struggled in a New York ICU, Didion’s husband, John Gregory Dunne, suffered a massive heart attack and died on the night of December 30, 2003. For 40 years, Didion and Dunne shared their lives and work in a marriage of remarkable intimacy and endurance. In the wake of Dunne’s death, Didion found herself unable to accept her loss. By “magical thinking,” Didion refers to the ruses of self-deception through which the bereaved seek to shield themselves from grief—being unwilling, for example, to donate a dead husband’s clothes because of the tacit awareness that it would mean acknowledging his final departure. As a poignant and ultimately doomed effort to deny reality through fiction, that magical thinking has much in common with the delusions Didion has chronicled in her several previous collections of essays. But perhaps because it is a work of such intense personal emotion, this memoir lacks the mordant bite of her earlier work. In the classics Slouching Toward Bethlehem (1968) and The White Album (1979), Didion linked her personal anxieties to her withering dissection of a misguided culture prey to its own self-gratifying fantasies. This latest work concentrates almost entirely on the author’s personal suffering and confusion—even her husband and daughter make but fleeting appearances—without connecting them to the larger public delusions that have been her special terrain.
A potent depiction of grief, but also a book lacking the originality and acerbic prose that distinguished Didion’s earlier writing.Pub Date: Oct. 19, 2005
ISBN: 1-4000-4314-X
Page Count: 192
Publisher: Knopf
Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 15, 2005
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A unique, incandescent memoir.
A lyrical, soul-stirring memoir about how an acclaimed Native American poet and musician came to embrace “the spirit of poetry.”
For Harjo, life did not begin at birth. She came into the world as an already-living spirit with the goal to release “the voices, songs, and stories” she carried with her from the “ancestor realm.” On Earth, she was the daughter of a half-Cherokee mother and a Creek father who made their home in Tulsa, Okla. Her father's alcoholism and volcanic temper eventually drove Harjo's mother and her children out of the family home. At first, the man who became the author’s stepfather “sang songs and smiled with his eyes,” but he soon revealed himself to be abusive and controlling. Harjo's primary way of escaping “the darkness that plagued the house and our family” was through drawing and music, two interests that allowed her to leave Oklahoma and pursue her high school education at the Institute of American Indian Arts in Santa Fe. Interaction with her classmates enlightened her to the fact that modern Native American culture and history had been shaped by “colonization and dehumanization.” An education and raised consciousness, however, did not spare Harjo from the hardships of teen pregnancy, poverty and a failed first marriage, but hard work and luck gained her admittance to the University of New Mexico, where she met a man whose “poetry opened one of the doors in my heart that had been closed since childhood.” But his hard-drinking ways wrecked their marriage and nearly destroyed Harjo. Faced with the choice of submitting to despair or becoming “crazy brave,” she found the courage to reclaim a lost spirituality as well as the “intricate and metaphorical language of my ancestors.”
A unique, incandescent memoir.Pub Date: July 9, 2012
ISBN: 978-0-393-07346-1
Page Count: 208
Publisher: Norton
Review Posted Online: April 29, 2012
Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 15, 2012
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