A thought-provoking consideration of how and why people reinvent themselves.
Rip it up and start again.
Denizet-Lewis foregrounds a complex, contested idea—“the possibility and mystery of change”—in this diligently reported look at the experiences of people who’ve experienced vast shifts at home, at work, and elsewhere. The author and New York Times Magazine contributing writer contends we’re in “the most dramatic wave of personal change” in a half-century, one intensified by social media. His profiles of Americans who’ve embraced “political conversions, name changes, gender transitions,” and various “pivots” are revealing and shorn of pat conclusions. Numerous interesting questions emerge, among them: What’s the relationship between “actual” and “perceived” change? Denizet-Lewis’ reporting shows that murderers appearing before parole boards are expected to perform contrition while hewing “to a familiar script grounded in American ideals of forgiveness and redemption.” The subject of another chapter—a schoolyard bully-turned-Buddhist—makes a related point: “Any identity is a kind of performance.” The author’s other subjects include activists trying to change political views via long, thoughtful conversations with conservative and undecided voters. Such “deep canvassing,” which emphasizes “empathy, storytelling, and nonjudgmental listening” expresses “defiance of despair.” His reporting on gender transitions is equally powerful. The mother of a transgender woman says the journey helped her daughter rediscover her “playful, artsy, sensitive” side. A formerly transgender person laments that “detrans folks” are frequently labeled as “bigots lying about our experiences.” The above is interwoven with colorful accounts of Denizet-Lewis’ own attempts to change his “addictive behavior.” During “rage work,” a therapist encouraged him to beat photos of his parents with a baseball bat. The book’s minor flaws include missed opportunities to add context. It’d be interesting to know, for example, if more paroles are granted after in-person hearings, which ostensibly allow for richer demonstrations of change, versus now-common virtual hearings.
A thought-provoking consideration of how and why people reinvent themselves.Pub Date: April 28, 2026
ISBN: 9780062995438
Page Count: 336
Publisher: Morrow/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: Feb. 16, 2026
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 15, 2026
A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular...
A neurosurgeon with a passion for literature tragically finds his perfect subject after his diagnosis of terminal lung cancer.
Writing isn’t brain surgery, but it’s rare when someone adept at the latter is also so accomplished at the former. Searching for meaning and purpose in his life, Kalanithi pursued a doctorate in literature and had felt certain that he wouldn’t enter the field of medicine, in which his father and other members of his family excelled. “But I couldn’t let go of the question,” he writes, after realizing that his goals “didn’t quite fit in an English department.” “Where did biology, morality, literature and philosophy intersect?” So he decided to set aside his doctoral dissertation and belatedly prepare for medical school, which “would allow me a chance to find answers that are not in books, to find a different sort of sublime, to forge relationships with the suffering, and to keep following the question of what makes human life meaningful, even in the face of death and decay.” The author’s empathy undoubtedly made him an exceptional doctor, and the precision of his prose—as well as the moral purpose underscoring it—suggests that he could have written a good book on any subject he chose. Part of what makes this book so essential is the fact that it was written under a death sentence following the diagnosis that upended his life, just as he was preparing to end his residency and attract offers at the top of his profession. Kalanithi learned he might have 10 years to live or perhaps five. Should he return to neurosurgery (he could and did), or should he write (he also did)? Should he and his wife have a baby? They did, eight months before he died, which was less than two years after the original diagnosis. “The fact of death is unsettling,” he understates. “Yet there is no other way to live.”
A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular clarity.Pub Date: Jan. 19, 2016
ISBN: 978-0-8129-8840-6
Page Count: 248
Publisher: Random House
Review Posted Online: Sept. 29, 2015
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 15, 2015
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Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our...
A psychologist and Nobel Prize winner summarizes and synthesizes the recent decades of research on intuition and systematic thinking.
The author of several scholarly texts, Kahneman (Emeritus Psychology and Public Affairs/Princeton Univ.) now offers general readers not just the findings of psychological research but also a better understanding of how research questions arise and how scholars systematically frame and answer them. He begins with the distinction between System 1 and System 2 mental operations, the former referring to quick, automatic thought, the latter to more effortful, overt thinking. We rely heavily, writes, on System 1, resorting to the higher-energy System 2 only when we need or want to. Kahneman continually refers to System 2 as “lazy”: We don’t want to think rigorously about something. The author then explores the nuances of our two-system minds, showing how they perform in various situations. Psychological experiments have repeatedly revealed that our intuitions are generally wrong, that our assessments are based on biases and that our System 1 hates doubt and despises ambiguity. Kahneman largely avoids jargon; when he does use some (“heuristics,” for example), he argues that such terms really ought to join our everyday vocabulary. He reviews many fundamental concepts in psychology and statistics (regression to the mean, the narrative fallacy, the optimistic bias), showing how they relate to his overall concerns about how we think and why we make the decisions that we do. Some of the later chapters (dealing with risk-taking and statistics and probabilities) are denser than others (some readers may resent such demands on System 2!), but the passages that deal with the economic and political implications of the research are gripping.
Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our minds.Pub Date: Nov. 1, 2011
ISBN: 978-0-374-27563-1
Page Count: 512
Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Review Posted Online: Sept. 3, 2011
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2011
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