An authoritative, up-to-date, and comprehensive manual.
Child development professionals Matthews and Foster expound on gifted education in this third, revised edition of their guide for parents.
Early in the first section of this work, the authors assert that the term gifted is frequently misunderstood to mean that a child is “born with the ability to learn everything.” Instead, Matthews and Foster believe in the concept of an “Optimal Match,” in which educational opportunities match up with a child’s “current level in a given subject area.” They explore this notion in detail in subsequent sections, which note how a child may have above-average aptitude in some areas and not others. Section II directly addresses how to diagnose “mismatches,” with several insightful and useful chapters highlighting the differences between standardized tests, which, by design, “cannot reflect the authentic, interactive, and dynamic nature of learning,” and assessments, which include “observation, listening, [and] dialogue.” In this section, the authors point out that children shouldn’t be labeled as gifted themselves; rather, their “gifted learning needs” should be identified and addressed. Especially pertinent are examples of conversations between parents and children about the implications of being labeled gifted. The clear emphasis in the third section is on how to meet children’s educational needs; here, the authors offer specific, practical suggestions for teachers to use in classrooms as well as clearly explained alternative options, such as home-schooling. In Section IV, Matthews and Foster turn their attention to such topics as motivation, achievement, social and behavioral considerations, and the roles that parents play in developing children’s abilities. Section V effectively puts all the previous sections into a real-world context; for example, the authors discuss how parents and teachers can work together and the reasons why parents need to be advocates for their children. Throughout the book, Matthews and Foster usefully cite numerous sources, including new research published since the last edition, and offer relevant anecdotes to validate their arguments.
An authoritative, up-to-date, and comprehensive manual.Pub Date: Sept. 21, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-953360-07-6
Page Count: 484
Publisher: Gifted Unlimited
Review Posted Online: Dec. 6, 2021
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
The heartbreaking story of an emotionally battered child delivered with captivating candor and grace.
The former iCarly star reflects on her difficult childhood.
In her debut memoir, titled after her 2020 one-woman show, singer and actor McCurdy (b. 1992) reveals the raw details of what she describes as years of emotional abuse at the hands of her demanding, emotionally unstable stage mom, Debra. Born in Los Angeles, the author, along with three older brothers, grew up in a home controlled by her mother. When McCurdy was 3, her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. Though she initially survived, the disease’s recurrence would ultimately take her life when the author was 21. McCurdy candidly reconstructs those in-between years, showing how “my mom emotionally, mentally, and physically abused me in ways that will forever impact me.” Insistent on molding her only daughter into “Mommy’s little actress,” Debra shuffled her to auditions beginning at age 6. As she matured and starting booking acting gigs, McCurdy remained “desperate to impress Mom,” while Debra became increasingly obsessive about her daughter’s physical appearance. She tinted her daughter’s eyelashes, whitened her teeth, enforced a tightly monitored regimen of “calorie restriction,” and performed regular genital exams on her as a teenager. Eventually, the author grew understandably resentful and tried to distance herself from her mother. As a young celebrity, however, McCurdy became vulnerable to eating disorders, alcohol addiction, self-loathing, and unstable relationships. Throughout the book, she honestly portrays Debra’s cruel perfectionist personality and abusive behavior patterns, showing a woman who could get enraged by everything from crooked eyeliner to spilled milk. At the same time, McCurdy exhibits compassion for her deeply flawed mother. Late in the book, she shares a crushing secret her father revealed to her as an adult. While McCurdy didn’t emerge from her childhood unscathed, she’s managed to spin her harrowing experience into a sold-out stage act and achieve a form of catharsis that puts her mind, body, and acting career at peace.
The heartbreaking story of an emotionally battered child delivered with captivating candor and grace.Pub Date: Aug. 9, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-982185-82-4
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: May 30, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 1, 2022
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SEEN & HEARD
SEEN & HEARD
SEEN & HEARD
A welcome addition to the literature of motherhood.
An anthology of writing on the subject of new motherhood, in bite-sized pieces.
Editors Knight and Buntin began this project in their “fourth trimesters,” when they began “comparing notes” on the tremendous changes wrought by labor, birth, and life with a newborn. The result gathers 60 accomplished writers in short, “digestible” pieces “better suited to the fragmented hours of new parenthood” than long-form essays. The “Laboring” section, with passages ranging from a single sentence to a few pages, chronicles the pain of contractions, the indignities of hospital protocol, and the violence of emergency C-sections—often rendered with humor alongside the horror, as when Krys Malcolm Bec describes the disorientation of having a birthing playlist played on shuffle by a well-meaning partner. “Feeding” is just as unsparing: cracked nipples, milk that won’t come, the tyranny of triple feeding, and the strange, consuming intimacy of nursing, which several writers describe as both the most hated and most loved act of their early motherhood. What emerges across these chapters, which extend into “Hurting,” “Loving,” “Tending,” and “Working,” is remarkably unsentimental. Contributors describe postpartum bleeding, mastitis, and depression alongside disorienting euphoria, often within the same entry. Several admit to the limits of language itself. As Emily Temple puts it, “there’s actually no way to communicate” how hard new motherhood is “until you experience it for yourself.” In the section titled, “Your Partner,” the writer Dur E Aziz Amna describes how, after birth, “a certain veneer falls off—the pretense of sameness that exists in many urban, educated couples before they have children.” The book’s format is a clever, humane response to the actual conditions of early parenthood, and the collection is an unusually honest record of an experience usually sanitized for public consumption—funny, raw, and occasionally unbearable, much like the thing it describes.
A welcome addition to the literature of motherhood.Pub Date: Sept. 1, 2026
ISBN: 9781324117056
Page Count: 336
Publisher: Norton
Review Posted Online: July 6, 2026
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 1, 2026
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