An often obvious but diverting jaunt through the nature of human connection.
Exploring “the most consequential social dynamic most people have never heard of.”
Synchrony is the alignment of your body and mind with an external source. Through new technologies, this phenomenon is only recently being studied by scientists. You can “click” or experience synchrony with just about anything: people, nature, animals, fictional or famous characters, and even inanimate objects like cars, planes, and boats. Murphy, author of You’re Not Listening, presents an overview of the field of synchrony, along with a plethora of examples of mysterious human connections—whether it is the ways we connect with our pets or the story of psychiatrist Hans Berger, inventor of electroencephalography, falling off a horse and his sister sensing a disaster. Synchrony, writes Murphy, is “a natural wonder that is far from fully understood. Some researchers suspect it may be an amplification or elaboration of so-called quantum entanglement—a phenomenon Albert Einstein famously called ‘spooky action at a distance’—where interacting subatomic particles begin to behave as one, even when separated in time and space.” Although the writing is smooth and accessible, the author’s theme is spread too thin and feels more speculative than scientific. From a 2022 TikTok video of a woman accepting a sandwich, to generosity at a Dairy Queen drive-through, to lawyers acting out psychodramas, the colorful variety begs the question: Isn’t everything synchrony? Is texting an emoji really “trying to compensate for the missing facial expression and body language that humans rely on to find resonance?” That all being said, the last chapter’s analysis of our current epidemic of loneliness (and its causes) is compelling and concerning (warning: tech companies are hiring neuroscientists to make us click more deeply with their digital content), the examples and quotes throughout are frequently insightful (even if, like many psychological studies, a reiteration of common sense), and what the book lacks in rigor and cohesiveness, the author makes up for with her enthusiastic vibe.
An often obvious but diverting jaunt through the nature of human connection.Pub Date: Jan. 27, 2026
ISBN: 9781250352453
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Celadon Books
Review Posted Online: Oct. 25, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2025
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A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular...
A neurosurgeon with a passion for literature tragically finds his perfect subject after his diagnosis of terminal lung cancer.
Writing isn’t brain surgery, but it’s rare when someone adept at the latter is also so accomplished at the former. Searching for meaning and purpose in his life, Kalanithi pursued a doctorate in literature and had felt certain that he wouldn’t enter the field of medicine, in which his father and other members of his family excelled. “But I couldn’t let go of the question,” he writes, after realizing that his goals “didn’t quite fit in an English department.” “Where did biology, morality, literature and philosophy intersect?” So he decided to set aside his doctoral dissertation and belatedly prepare for medical school, which “would allow me a chance to find answers that are not in books, to find a different sort of sublime, to forge relationships with the suffering, and to keep following the question of what makes human life meaningful, even in the face of death and decay.” The author’s empathy undoubtedly made him an exceptional doctor, and the precision of his prose—as well as the moral purpose underscoring it—suggests that he could have written a good book on any subject he chose. Part of what makes this book so essential is the fact that it was written under a death sentence following the diagnosis that upended his life, just as he was preparing to end his residency and attract offers at the top of his profession. Kalanithi learned he might have 10 years to live or perhaps five. Should he return to neurosurgery (he could and did), or should he write (he also did)? Should he and his wife have a baby? They did, eight months before he died, which was less than two years after the original diagnosis. “The fact of death is unsettling,” he understates. “Yet there is no other way to live.”
A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular clarity.Pub Date: Jan. 19, 2016
ISBN: 978-0-8129-8840-6
Page Count: 248
Publisher: Random House
Review Posted Online: Sept. 29, 2015
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 15, 2015
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A philosophically rich critique of state violence and mass apathy.
An Egyptian Canadian journalist writes searchingly of this time of war.
“Rules, conventions, morals, reality itself: all exist so long as their existence is convenient to the preservation of power.” So writes El Akkad, who goes on to state that one of the demands of modern power is that those subject to it must imagine that some group of people somewhere are not fully human. El Akkad’s pointed example is Gaza, the current destruction of which, he writes, is causing millions of people around the world to examine the supposedly rules-governed, democratic West and declare, “I want nothing to do with this.” El Akkad, author of the novel American War (2017), discerns hypocrisy and racism in the West’s defense of Ukraine and what he views as indifference toward the Palestinian people. No stranger to war zones himself—El Akkad was a correspondent in Afghanistan and Iraq—he writes with grim matter-of-factness about murdered children, famine, and the deliberate targeting of civilians. With no love for Zionism lost, he offers an equally harsh critique of Hamas, yet another one of the “entities obsessed with violence as an ethos, brutal in their treatment of minority groups who in their view should not exist, and self-decreed to be the true protectors of an entire religion.” Taking a global view, El Akkad, who lives in the U.S., finds almost every government and society wanting, and not least those, he says, that turn away and pretend not to know, behavior that we’ve seen before and that, in the spirit of his title, will one day be explained away until, in the end, it comes down to “a quiet unheard reckoning in the winter of life between the one who said nothing, did nothing, and their own soul.”
A philosophically rich critique of state violence and mass apathy.Pub Date: Feb. 25, 2025
ISBN: 9780593804148
Page Count: 224
Publisher: Knopf
Review Posted Online: Dec. 14, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2025
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