A clear and unabashedly uplifting set of encouragements for Christian women seeking men who are worthy of their time—and...
A debut guide aims to help Christian women find true love.
“I want you to recognize how beautiful you are,” writes Van Pelt in her trim work. “You are a treasure waiting to be found.” This simple, straightforward note of personal religious hope runs throughout the inspirational book and undergirds its sentiments about how the faithful should live in contemporary society. “God is so in love with you!” the author writes. “He built this whole world around us.” Throughout the volume, she asserts that she seeks God for clarity, and perhaps as a result, her own book’s precepts show an attractive level of lucidity. She sees the women of the Bible as “power players” operating behind the scenes of the male-dominated stories. She imports this kind of thinking to the modern world, telling her female readers that there are subtle ways in which they must “woo” the men of their dreams, sheltering them, shoring up their faith, and bolstering their strength in all things. She lays out in detail seven steps to achieve this: ambition, vision, belief, a road map, resolve to see it all through despite setbacks, faith in God’s plan for you, and a commitment to growth, both personal and spiritual. In explaining this outline, Van Pelt is a uniformly inviting and enthusiastic companion for her audience. She encourages her readers to ask God to give them “wit and wisdom so you know how to speak in such a way that you attract hearers”—with the most important of those hearers implicitly being the “one man” God has sent to Earth for each of them. The underlying question suggested in this—why would any effort at all be needed to win the affection of someone put on Earth by God in order to give it?—goes unaddressed throughout, but that seems at least partly by design. Van Pelt’s emphasis is more on the interpersonal mechanics of Christians finding fellow Christians than on any spiritual metaphysics that might be involved.
A clear and unabashedly uplifting set of encouragements for Christian women seeking men who are worthy of their time—and their faith.Pub Date: July 11, 2017
ISBN: 978-1-5127-8611-8
Page Count: 114
Publisher: Westbow Press
Review Posted Online: Dec. 27, 2017
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A vivid sequel that strains credulity.
Fremont (After Long Silence, 1999) continues—and alters—her story of how memories of the Holocaust affected her family.
At the age of 44, the author learned that her father had disowned her, declaring her “predeceased”—or dead in his eyes—in his will. It was his final insult: Her parents had stopped speaking to her after she’d published After Long Silence, which exposed them as Jewish Holocaust survivors who had posed as Catholics in Europe and America in order to hide multilayered secrets. Here, Fremont delves further into her tortured family dynamics and shows how the rift developed. One thread centers on her life after her harrowing childhood: her education at Wellesley and Boston University, the loss of her virginity to a college boyfriend before accepting her lesbianism, her stint with the Peace Corps in Lesotho, and her decades of work as a lawyer in Boston. Another strand involves her fraught relationship with her sister, Lara, and how their difficulties relate to their father, a doctor embittered after years in the Siberian gulag; and their mother, deeply enmeshed with her own sister, Zosia, who had married an Italian count and stayed in Rome to raise a child. Fremont tells these stories with novelistic flair, ending with a surprising theory about why her parents hid their Judaism. Yet she often appears insensitive to the serious problems she says Lara once faced, including suicidal depression. “The whole point of suicide, I thought, was to succeed at it,” she writes. “My sister’s completion rate was pathetic.” Key facts also differ from those in her earlier work. After Long Silence says, for example, that the author grew up “in a small city in the Midwest” while she writes here that she grew up in “upstate New York,” changes Fremont says she made for “consistency” in the new book but that muddy its narrative waters. The discrepancies may not bother readers seeking psychological insights rather than factual accuracy, but others will wonder if this book should have been labeled a fictionalized autobiography rather than a memoir.
A vivid sequel that strains credulity.Pub Date: Feb. 11, 2020
ISBN: 978-1-982113-60-5
Page Count: 352
Publisher: Gallery Books/Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: Oct. 20, 2019
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 15, 2019
BOOK REVIEW
Solid, practical advice for women on how to properly nurture their sons.
How women can raise boys to become good men.
More than ever, women are under pressure to be "everything to everyone," writes Meeker (The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers: Reclaiming Our Passion, Purpose, and Sanity, 2010, etc.), as "working women feel that they must perform equally well both in the office and in caring for their home, husband, and children." The dynamics of raising boys is especially difficult for women due to the gender difference and the fact that women tend to be nurturing and helpful while allowing their sons to evolve into men in a constantly shifting masculine paradigm. Through research and interviews from her own practice, Meeker gives women the necessary tools to understand that perfection is not a realistic goal but that doing the best one can will ensure good results. Equally useful to single mothers and women with husbands is the advice that sons need to know they are loved from a very young age, as this builds a foundation of confidence in a child, a base that allows a boy to gradually move away from his mother as he interacts with male peers and elders. A boy's home life must be solid: a safe haven to return to regardless of his age, a place where his thoughts and feelings are respected and where he can express his hopes and dreams without fear of judgment. Meeker recommends introducing boys to religion, prayer and the unconditional love that comes from having a strong faith to boost self-confidence. She also skillfully navigates the world of sex—from a boy's first body awareness to the powerful effects of pornography and sexual messages embedded in social media, video games and news media, to his interactions in the world of girls and women. A mother's imprint on her son is powerful right from birth and remains so throughout her son's life. Meeker's advice gives women the tools to navigate these often rocky waters with confidence.
Solid, practical advice for women on how to properly nurture their sons.Pub Date: April 8, 2014
ISBN: 978-0-345-51809-5
Page Count: 368
Publisher: Ballantine
Review Posted Online: Feb. 18, 2014
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2014
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