DO FATHERS MATTER? by Paul Raeburn


What Science Is Telling Us About the Parent We've Overlooked
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How science is providing new insights into the importance of the father figure.

In the United States, the cultural model for being a “good father” has become diffuse and conflicted. It’s interesting that Raeburn (Acquainted with the Night: A Parent's Quest to Understand Depression and Bipolar Disorder in His Children, 2004, etc.) titled the book “Do Fathers Matter?”—that’s one of the few questions about fathering that continues to have a clear answer. Yes, they matter, but how, and in what way? The author, chief media critic for the Knight Science Journalism Tracker site at MIT, traces the historical roots of gender-based division of labor, noting the origins of food gathering, protection and cooking and how those duties remained entrenched through tens of thousands of years. He argues that the combination of this long precedent coupled with increased pressure to be an equal partner at home has led to the creation of a “male mystique” that leaves many men pressured to be all things to all people—a paradigm as damaging as the “feminine mystique.” Raeburn considers how the male presence can sculpt a newborn and how the father is, in turn, also sculpted by the infant. Some of the author’s observations are anecdotal—how many of the magazines in your pediatrician’s office are parenting magazines aimed at women?—but they frequently serve as backdrops for other data regarding how men interact with their children and the children’s mothers. The book spans conception to the teenage years, environmental biology and zoology to commercials for bleach and diapers. At times, the narrative reads like an overstuffed binder of research and ideas, with no clear direction to help structure the facts and theories into a set of complete arguments.

As food for thought, the book provides an ample helping for anyone willing to look at the ways fathers are portrayed, the realities of male parenting and all the gray areas in between.

Pub Date: June 3rd, 2014
ISBN: 978-0-374-14104-2
Page count: 288pp
Publisher: Scientific American/Farrar, Straus and Giroux
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Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 15th, 2014


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