by Bunny McBride ‧ RELEASE DATE: Nov. 28, 2023
An insightful compilation deftly highlighting the “big picture” lessons found in individual experiences.
McBride’s collection of true stories highlights the triumphs and tribulations that make us all human.
Over the course of a dozen stories, the author narrates her experiences with various people who have moved her in different ways. She shares their tales as jumping-off points for reflections on the meaning of life itself. In “When Life Tosses You Up,” for example, she describes her first meeting with author Henrietta Delancey Henkle (later Buckmaster), whose donation to a local low-income minority community center sparked a years-long friendship between the two that ultimately helped inspire McBride’s own writing career. “Because We Are” depicts the many nightly conversations the author shared with Demba, a community organizer she met while assisting a friend in the small village of Faoune in southern Senegal. Their quietly reverential discussions reveal the fundamentally different questions they ask themselves while contemplating existence, from McBride’s individualistic query, “Who am I?” to Demba’s more community-focused inquiry, “What is the purpose of life?” It is through Demba’s question that this personal story quickly zooms out to relate to existence (generally) and focuses in on “the philosophy of shared wellbeing and reciprocity that undergirds an age-old, life-sustaining social ethic” (specifically). This basic narrative construction—moving from individual experiences to broader meditations—undergirds each of McBride’s stories, whether she is chatting with a Kansas cowboy or reuniting with a Chinese professor who gave group English lessons in Beijing during the aftermath of the Cultural Revolution. Through it all, McBride shares her own ideas about the choices we make and the gifts we contribute while periodically touching back upon the overarching moon metaphor (“And like the moon, we shine more brightly in some situations than in others”) that informs the entire work.
The author expertly applies the art of storytelling to more philosophical musings that are sure to nudge readers toward their own epiphanies. The dialogue is not exactly what one would call realistic; the language is massaged and clearly deployed for maximum emotional impact. When Demba asks the author to explain how people search for themselves, for example, McBride responds, “It’s usually done solo – in a quiet corner at home, or outside on a walk, atop a mountain or staring up at the moon and stars on a night like this.” But the lack of naturalism doesn’t diminish the stories’ impact—the message behind the words is clearly much more important to the writer and, ultimately, the reader. The author’s prose brings her subjects to vivid life, whether she’s describing “skin the warm brown hue of tamarind nuts” or setting the scene for the opening of a new chapter (“As a Kansas boy reared on a cattle ranch, Kurt rarely felt dazzled by life…Time and time again he had sniffed the scent of his own sweat mingling with the musty odors of broad-faced bulls digging in the dirt to raise dust and shield themselves from flies.” While McBride’s ruminations might not be particularly groundbreaking, they do raise insightful questions that will likely fuel plenty of late-night deep thoughts about life and our respective roles in it.
An insightful compilation deftly highlighting the “big picture” lessons found in individual experiences.Pub Date: Nov. 28, 2023
ISBN: 9798989453900
Page Count: 151
Publisher: Wisbee Creek Press
Review Posted Online: June 20, 2024
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
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by Stephanie Johnson & Brandon Stanton illustrated by Henry Sene Yee ‧ RELEASE DATE: July 12, 2022
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.
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A former New York City dancer reflects on her zesty heyday in the 1970s.
Discovered on a Manhattan street in 2020 and introduced on Stanton’s Humans of New York Instagram page, Johnson, then 76, shares her dynamic history as a “fiercely independent” Black burlesque dancer who used the stage name Tanqueray and became a celebrated fixture in midtown adult theaters. “I was the only black girl making white girl money,” she boasts, telling a vibrant story about sex and struggle in a bygone era. Frank and unapologetic, Johnson vividly captures aspects of her former life as a stage seductress shimmying to blues tracks during 18-minute sets or sewing lingerie for plus-sized dancers. Though her work was far from the Broadway shows she dreamed about, it eventually became all about the nightly hustle to simply survive. Her anecdotes are humorous, heartfelt, and supremely captivating, recounted with the passion of a true survivor and the acerbic wit of a weathered, street-wise New Yorker. She shares stories of growing up in an abusive household in Albany in the 1940s, a teenage pregnancy, and prison time for robbery as nonchalantly as she recalls selling rhinestone G-strings to prostitutes to make them sparkle in the headlights of passing cars. Complemented by an array of revealing personal photographs, the narrative alternates between heartfelt nostalgia about the seedier side of Manhattan’s go-go scene and funny quips about her unconventional stage performances. Encounters with a variety of hardworking dancers, drag queens, and pimps, plus an account of the complexities of a first love with a drug-addled hustler, fill out the memoir with personality and candor. With a narrative assist from Stanton, the result is a consistently titillating and often moving story of human struggle as well as an insider glimpse into the days when Times Square was considered the Big Apple’s gloriously unpolished underbelly. The book also includes Yee’s lush watercolor illustrations.
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.Pub Date: July 12, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-250-27827-2
Page Count: 192
Publisher: St. Martin's
Review Posted Online: July 27, 2022
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by Pamela Anderson ‧ RELEASE DATE: Jan. 31, 2023
A juicy story with some truly crazy moments, yet Anderson's good heart shines through.
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The iconic model tells the story of her eventful life.
According to the acknowledgments, this memoir started as "a fifty-page poem and then grew into hundreds of pages of…more poetry." Readers will be glad that Anderson eventually turned to writing prose, since the well-told anecdotes and memorable character sketches are what make it a page-turner. The poetry (more accurately described as italicized notes-to-self with line breaks) remains strewn liberally through the pages, often summarizing the takeaway or the emotional impact of the events described: "I was / and still am / an exceptionally / easy target. / And, / I'm proud of that." This way of expressing herself is part of who she is, formed partly by her passion for Anaïs Nin and other writers; she is a serious maven of literature and the arts. The narrative gets off to a good start with Anderson’s nostalgic memories of her childhood in coastal Vancouver, raised by very young, very wild, and not very competent parents. Here and throughout the book, the author displays a remarkable lack of anger. She has faced abuse and mistreatment of many kinds over the decades, but she touches on the most appalling passages lightly—though not so lightly you don't feel the torment of the media attention on the events leading up to her divorce from Tommy Lee. Her trip to the pages of Playboy, which involved an escape from a violent fiance and sneaking across the border, is one of many jaw-dropping stories. In one interesting passage, Julian Assange's mother counsels Anderson to desexualize her image in order to be taken more seriously as an activist. She decided that “it was too late to turn back now”—that sexy is an inalienable part of who she is. Throughout her account of this kooky, messed-up, enviable, and often thrilling life, her humility (her sons "are true miracles, considering the gene pool") never fails her.
A juicy story with some truly crazy moments, yet Anderson's good heart shines through.Pub Date: Jan. 31, 2023
ISBN: 9780063226562
Page Count: 256
Publisher: Dey Street/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: Dec. 5, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 1, 2023
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