Fits snugly on the burgeoning stacks of immigrant and survivor memoirs, but given the sheer volume of such personal...

BLOSSOMS ON THE WIND

A MEMOIR

Lac chronicles the harrowing journey from war-torn Vietnam to adulthood.

Born in 1967 in a small town near Saigon, the author was five months old when the Tet Offensive began. Her mother, a seamstress, was forced to flee with Lac and her younger sister Hanh. She saw her father only on his annual leave from the South Vietnamese army, when he was usually drunk and arguing with her mother. He was killed in 1975, and Hanh died soon after. In 1978, the author’s mother used their savings to purchase two spots on a small fishing boat that would smuggle them out of the country. It foundered off the coast of Malaysia, killing 200 of the 350 refugees crammed aboard, but Lac and her mother miraculously survived. After months in a prison-like refugee camp, they were granted U.S. residency and safely made it to California. Adjusting to America was difficult; they kept moving based on the whereabouts of her mother’s current boyfriend, and Lac resented it. She managed to graduate from high school in 1986 and became a U.S. citizen that same year. “Little by little,” she writes, “I had started to become a whole new person…someone who was not quite Vietnamese, not quite American, never completely comfortable or happy, and never sure why.” This self-pitying tone permeates the author’s strife-laden account of a disastrous marriage that produced two sons and a ten-year stay in Paris before she returned to the United States in 2006. She seems to have been yanked from land to land, domicile to domicile, by her mother, her husband and fate. Much of the memoir is told from a victim’s perspective, which gives a hollow ring to Lac’s attempt to trumpet her transformation from a frightened, withdrawn child to an autonomous autobiographer.

Fits snugly on the burgeoning stacks of immigrant and survivor memoirs, but given the sheer volume of such personal nonfiction, having lived to tell isn’t enough; you need to have something to say beyond complaints.

Pub Date: April 1, 2009

ISBN: 978-0-8065-3114-4

Page Count: 224

Publisher: Citadel/Kensington

Review Posted Online: May 20, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 15, 2009

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UNTAMED

More life reflections from the bestselling author on themes of societal captivity and the catharsis of personal freedom.

In her third book, Doyle (Love Warrior, 2016, etc.) begins with a life-changing event. “Four years ago,” she writes, “married to the father of my three children, I fell in love with a woman.” That woman, Abby Wambach, would become her wife. Emblematically arranged into three sections—“Caged,” “Keys,” “Freedom”—the narrative offers, among other elements, vignettes about the soulful author’s girlhood, when she was bulimic and felt like a zoo animal, a “caged girl made for wide-open skies.” She followed the path that seemed right and appropriate based on her Catholic upbringing and adolescent conditioning. After a downward spiral into “drinking, drugging, and purging,” Doyle found sobriety and the authentic self she’d been suppressing. Still, there was trouble: Straining an already troubled marriage was her husband’s infidelity, which eventually led to life-altering choices and the discovery of a love she’d never experienced before. Throughout the book, Doyle remains open and candid, whether she’s admitting to rigging a high school homecoming court election or denouncing the doting perfectionism of “cream cheese parenting,” which is about “giving your children the best of everything.” The author’s fears and concerns are often mirrored by real-world issues: gender roles and bias, white privilege, racism, and religion-fueled homophobia and hypocrisy. Some stories merely skim the surface of larger issues, but Doyle revisits them in later sections and digs deeper, using friends and familial references to personify their impact on her life, both past and present. Shorter pieces, some only a page in length, manage to effectively translate an emotional gut punch, as when Doyle’s therapist called her blooming extramarital lesbian love a “dangerous distraction.” Ultimately, the narrative is an in-depth look at a courageous woman eager to share the wealth of her experiences by embracing vulnerability and reclaiming her inner strength and resiliency.

Doyle offers another lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal.

Pub Date: March 10, 2020

ISBN: 978-1-9848-0125-8

Page Count: 352

Publisher: Dial Books

Review Posted Online: Dec. 22, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2020

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If the authors are serious, this is a silly, distasteful book. If they are not, it’s a brilliant satire.

THE 48 LAWS OF POWER

The authors have created a sort of anti-Book of Virtues in this encyclopedic compendium of the ways and means of power.

Everyone wants power and everyone is in a constant duplicitous game to gain more power at the expense of others, according to Greene, a screenwriter and former editor at Esquire (Elffers, a book packager, designed the volume, with its attractive marginalia). We live today as courtiers once did in royal courts: we must appear civil while attempting to crush all those around us. This power game can be played well or poorly, and in these 48 laws culled from the history and wisdom of the world’s greatest power players are the rules that must be followed to win. These laws boil down to being as ruthless, selfish, manipulative, and deceitful as possible. Each law, however, gets its own chapter: “Conceal Your Intentions,” “Always Say Less Than Necessary,” “Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy,” and so on. Each chapter is conveniently broken down into sections on what happened to those who transgressed or observed the particular law, the key elements in this law, and ways to defensively reverse this law when it’s used against you. Quotations in the margins amplify the lesson being taught. While compelling in the way an auto accident might be, the book is simply nonsense. Rules often contradict each other. We are told, for instance, to “be conspicuous at all cost,” then told to “behave like others.” More seriously, Greene never really defines “power,” and he merely asserts, rather than offers evidence for, the Hobbesian world of all against all in which he insists we live. The world may be like this at times, but often it isn’t. To ask why this is so would be a far more useful project.

If the authors are serious, this is a silly, distasteful book. If they are not, it’s a brilliant satire.

Pub Date: Sept. 1, 1998

ISBN: 0-670-88146-5

Page Count: 430

Publisher: Viking

Review Posted Online: May 20, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 15, 1998

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