by Mark Craven ‧ RELEASE DATE: March 24, 2023
A rousing, science-based argument encouraging fathers to give all the love they can to their sons.
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Craven expounds on the importance of fathers loving their sons in this nonfiction work.
The author acknowledges up front the apparent contradictions involved in someone like him sounding a call for more affectionate, supportive roles for fathers—he’s a big guy with a neck tattoo and hardly seems the type to be encouraging sensitivity in other men. But, as Craven notes, looks can be deceiving; contrary to his stereotype, he isn’t a sports fan and likes nothing better than reading a good book in a friendly cafe. The author writes that he has a bad relationship with his mother, who was a pathological liar. He claims he never had a paternal figure until he was in his 20s and met his biological dad—his mother had previously assured everybody Craven’s father was dead. This understandably led to the author developing some guarded, cynical attitudes in his youth: “I just assumed that no matter what, I would always be let down,” he confides. “Trust wasn’t even an option because this persistent letdown was a consistent inevitability.” Nevertheless, Craven overcame these and other obstacles and eventually reached the point where he could write this book, drawing on both his own autobiography and an array of research in the field of parenting to reinforce his plea to fathers to express affection for their sons. “Everything else will fall into place as it should, but please, kiss your little boy,” he writes. “Beautiful healing awaits you in this process, and beautiful hope, security, and strength await your son.” Throughout, the author is an approachable and authoritative narrator, using a tough, no-nonsense tone (heavily interspersed with wrestling references and dad jokes) and very convincing neuroscience data to buttress his case for emotionally demonstrative and transparent relationships between fathers and sons. It’s a call an entire generation of fathers probably needs to hear.
A rousing, science-based argument encouraging fathers to give all the love they can to their sons.Pub Date: March 24, 2023
ISBN: 979-8987769218
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Self
Review Posted Online: June 2, 2023
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
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by Stephanie Johnson & Brandon Stanton illustrated by Henry Sene Yee ‧ RELEASE DATE: July 12, 2022
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.
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A former New York City dancer reflects on her zesty heyday in the 1970s.
Discovered on a Manhattan street in 2020 and introduced on Stanton’s Humans of New York Instagram page, Johnson, then 76, shares her dynamic history as a “fiercely independent” Black burlesque dancer who used the stage name Tanqueray and became a celebrated fixture in midtown adult theaters. “I was the only black girl making white girl money,” she boasts, telling a vibrant story about sex and struggle in a bygone era. Frank and unapologetic, Johnson vividly captures aspects of her former life as a stage seductress shimmying to blues tracks during 18-minute sets or sewing lingerie for plus-sized dancers. Though her work was far from the Broadway shows she dreamed about, it eventually became all about the nightly hustle to simply survive. Her anecdotes are humorous, heartfelt, and supremely captivating, recounted with the passion of a true survivor and the acerbic wit of a weathered, street-wise New Yorker. She shares stories of growing up in an abusive household in Albany in the 1940s, a teenage pregnancy, and prison time for robbery as nonchalantly as she recalls selling rhinestone G-strings to prostitutes to make them sparkle in the headlights of passing cars. Complemented by an array of revealing personal photographs, the narrative alternates between heartfelt nostalgia about the seedier side of Manhattan’s go-go scene and funny quips about her unconventional stage performances. Encounters with a variety of hardworking dancers, drag queens, and pimps, plus an account of the complexities of a first love with a drug-addled hustler, fill out the memoir with personality and candor. With a narrative assist from Stanton, the result is a consistently titillating and often moving story of human struggle as well as an insider glimpse into the days when Times Square was considered the Big Apple’s gloriously unpolished underbelly. The book also includes Yee’s lush watercolor illustrations.
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.Pub Date: July 12, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-250-27827-2
Page Count: 192
Publisher: St. Martin's
Review Posted Online: July 27, 2022
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by Pamela Anderson ‧ RELEASE DATE: Jan. 31, 2023
A juicy story with some truly crazy moments, yet Anderson's good heart shines through.
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The iconic model tells the story of her eventful life.
According to the acknowledgments, this memoir started as "a fifty-page poem and then grew into hundreds of pages of…more poetry." Readers will be glad that Anderson eventually turned to writing prose, since the well-told anecdotes and memorable character sketches are what make it a page-turner. The poetry (more accurately described as italicized notes-to-self with line breaks) remains strewn liberally through the pages, often summarizing the takeaway or the emotional impact of the events described: "I was / and still am / an exceptionally / easy target. / And, / I'm proud of that." This way of expressing herself is part of who she is, formed partly by her passion for Anaïs Nin and other writers; she is a serious maven of literature and the arts. The narrative gets off to a good start with Anderson’s nostalgic memories of her childhood in coastal Vancouver, raised by very young, very wild, and not very competent parents. Here and throughout the book, the author displays a remarkable lack of anger. She has faced abuse and mistreatment of many kinds over the decades, but she touches on the most appalling passages lightly—though not so lightly you don't feel the torment of the media attention on the events leading up to her divorce from Tommy Lee. Her trip to the pages of Playboy, which involved an escape from a violent fiance and sneaking across the border, is one of many jaw-dropping stories. In one interesting passage, Julian Assange's mother counsels Anderson to desexualize her image in order to be taken more seriously as an activist. She decided that “it was too late to turn back now”—that sexy is an inalienable part of who she is. Throughout her account of this kooky, messed-up, enviable, and often thrilling life, her humility (her sons "are true miracles, considering the gene pool") never fails her.
A juicy story with some truly crazy moments, yet Anderson's good heart shines through.Pub Date: Jan. 31, 2023
ISBN: 9780063226562
Page Count: 256
Publisher: Dey Street/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: Dec. 5, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 1, 2023
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