A book marinated in provocative assertions that are certain to instigate debate and productive discussion.
A witty discussion of the indirect role sex plays across political, economic, religious, and cultural landscapes.
Veteran pop-culture journalist Benes, who has worked for Esquire and Deadspin, first addresses the sordid history of monogamy and its pervasiveness in Western society as more than just a social construct but rather a conditioned and normalized mating system. The author presents the argument that devotion as a kind of “sexual conditioning” has both contentment consequences (i.e., divorce via infidelity) and social benefits. Benes then examines the public perception of political sex scandals throughout history (including our “Founding Fornicators”) and what he considers the “true significance” of pornography, and he discusses uproarious case studies on the hidden sex-related histories of products like corn flakes and graham crackers. Having snarkily documented a visit to a Scientology center for Esquire, Benes is no stranger to immersion journalism, but he digs freely and critically into more scandalous territory in chapters detailing the failure of the condom initiative in Uganda in stemming AIDS infections, veiled homosexuality in the military, and the “prevalence of gay priests” in the Catholic church. Throughout the narrative, the author provides generous, often entertaining footnotes—e.g., “law scholar Richard Posner theorized Catholic rituals might attract homosexuals. The adornment, theatrical expression, music, incense, and lavish garb might appeal more to a gay man than a straight man.” As a probing, multifaceted commentary on the social science of sex and society, Benes’ book succeeds in corralling a litany of ideas and opinions that may ruffle some readers’ feathers. Regardless of the possible unpopularity of his conclusions, however, the author consistently makes salient points: “The only thing perplexing about a powerful person using their traits and resources to obtain sex is that people are surprised whenever it happens.” Benes ably explores society’s perceptions and applications of sex in ways that are “worth studying, rather than sensationalizing.”
A book marinated in provocative assertions that are certain to instigate debate and productive discussion.Pub Date: April 4, 2017
ISBN: 978-1-4926-4742-3
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Sourcebooks
Review Posted Online: Feb. 1, 2017
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 15, 2017
If that promise of clarity is what awaits us all, then death doesn’t seem so awful, and that is a great gift from Sacks. A...
Valediction from the late neurologist and writer Sacks (On the Move: A Life, 2015, etc.).
In this set of four short essays, much-forwarded opinion pieces from the New York Times, the author ponders illness, specifically the metastatic cancer that spread from eye to liver and in doing so foreclosed any possibility of treatment. His brief reflections on that unfortunate development give way to, yes, gratitude as he examines the good things that he has experienced over what, in the end, turned out to be a rather long life after all, lasting 82 years. To be sure, Sacks has regrets about leaving the world, not least of them not being around to see “a thousand…breakthroughs in the physical and biological sciences,” as well as the night sky sprinkled with stars and the yellow legal pads on which he worked sprinkled with words. Sacks works a few familiar tropes and elaborates others. Charmingly, he reflects on his habit since childhood of associating each year of his life with the element of corresponding atomic weight on the periodic table; given polonium’s “intense, murderous radioactivity,” then perhaps 84 isn’t all that it’s cut out to be. There are some glaring repetitions here, unfortunate given the intense brevity of this book, such as his twice citing Nathaniel Hawthorne’s call to revel in “intercourse with the world”—no, not that kind. Yet his thoughts overall—while not as soul-stirringly inspirational as the similar reflections of Randy Pausch or as bent on chasing down the story as Christopher Hitchens’ last book—are shaped into an austere beauty, as when Sacks writes of being able in his final moments to “see my life as from a great altitude, as a sort of landscape, and with a deepening sense of the connection of all its parts.”
If that promise of clarity is what awaits us all, then death doesn’t seem so awful, and that is a great gift from Sacks. A fitting, lovely farewell.Pub Date: Nov. 24, 2015
ISBN: 978-0-451-49293-7
Page Count: 64
Publisher: Knopf
Review Posted Online: Oct. 31, 2015
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 15, 2015
However charily one should apply the word, a beautiful book, an unconditionally involving memoir for our time or any time.
Maya Angelou is a natural writer with an inordinate sense of life and she has written an exceptional autobiographical narrative which retrieves her first sixteen years from "the general darkness just beyond the great blinkers of childhood."
Her story is told in scenes, ineluctably moving scenes, from the time when she and her brother were sent by her fancy living parents to Stamps, Arkansas, and a grandmother who had the local Store. Displaced they were and "If growing up is painful for the Southern Black girl, being aware of her displacement is the rust on the razor that threatens the throat." But alternating with all the pain and terror (her rape at the age of eight when in St. Louis With her mother) and humiliation (a brief spell in the kitchen of a white woman who refused to remember her name) and fear (of a lynching—and the time they buried afflicted Uncle Willie under a blanket of vegetables) as well as all the unanswered and unanswerable questions, there are affirmative memories and moments: her charming brother Bailey; her own "unshakable God"; a revival meeting in a tent; her 8th grade graduation; and at the end, when she's sixteen, the birth of a baby. Times When as she says "It seemed that the peace of a day's ending was an assurance that the covenant God made with children, Negroes and the crippled was still in effect."
However charily one should apply the word, a beautiful book, an unconditionally involving memoir for our time or any time.Pub Date: Feb. 1, 1969
ISBN: 0375507892
Page Count: 235
Publisher: Random House
Review Posted Online: May 14, 2012
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 1969
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